Thanks anyway guys
I was able to solve this problem
Aparently dd-wrt now uses a new encrition thing and when u put another firmware that thing goes crazy.
the solution is to install the firm u want and after u put it turn it off and turn it on. then press restore button for about 30s a light will start blinking. after those 30s u just have to turn it off and on again and it will work perfectly
Thank u all.. U all saved me a couple of bucks
regards and keep up the good work