And this is mine lighttpd -V result:
Code:
lighttpd/1.4.28 (ssl) - a light and fast webserver
Build-Date: Aug 22 2010 18:32:55

Event Handlers:

        + select (generic)
        + poll (Unix)
        - rt-signals (Linux 2.4+)
        + epoll (Linux 2.6)
        - /dev/poll (Solaris)
        - kqueue (FreeBSD)
        - libev (generic)

Network handler:

        + writev
        + mmap support

Features:

        + IPv6 support
        + zlib support
        + bzip2 support
        + crypt support
        + SSL Support
        + PCRE support
        + mySQL support
        + LDAP support
        + memcached support
        - FAM support
        + LUA support
        + xml support
        + SQLite support
        - GDBM support
As You can see they are identical. Everything is up2date so no mistakes because of wrong software. I've also studied the site You gave here and without a doubt it should work but it ain't.